Thursday, April 30, 2009

Adoption updates (*new update added)

Well, it looks like we may be hitting our first bump in the road after being matched with Sophie.

Due to the concern over the swine flu, it looks like China is extending TAs that were issued between Mar 1 and Apr 30, from 3 to 5 months, and if they are doing that, I'm guessing they will probably hold off on issuing new ones for the time being. With that said, it's unclear at this time if the CC@A is not allowing travel for those who have TA now, or if they are just advising against it. You can read the announcement from the CC@A here.

Time will tell for us on whether our June time frame for travel will come to fruition or not. I was doing OK with the wait until this, as I have to say, my heart is heavy right now, as I really just want to hold my baby!! I know I need to trust in His plan and that His timing will be perfect, as always. I do feel blessed with the access we have to Sophie, and my heart is at peace with the care and love she is receiving at New Day while we all wait.

That brings us to Sophie's quilt. I have a little over 50 squares/wishes now. (I plan on posting pictures soon!) PLEASE, if you could contribute, there is still time. I would love to hit 100:-). I'm remaining positive that if there is a travel delay, it will be short, and Sophie WILL be home in a timely manner. Therefore, I need to set a firm deadline to receive fabric by May 10th. I plan on hanging her quilt in her bedroom, and I would love to have it completed by the time she comes home. If you need my address, just contact me via email, found in my profile. Thanks so much for taking the time to do this.

As for travel to China, John and I have decided it will just be the two of us.

Thank you to all of you who gave your input. It really did help with our deliberation. It was a very hard decision, as there are pros and cons to both ways, but in the end mostly due to financial constraints, the amount of in-China travel we will have, and the fact that this will be the only block of time Sophie will have with our undivided attention, John and I felt leaving the boys at home was the best choice for us. The fact that Sophie will have waited close to 4 years for a mommy and daddy,(PLEASE God let her be home for her Aug birthday), and has had to share attention all her life, it weighed heavily on our hearts that we give her this 'one on one' time with us. I hate leaving the boys behind, and I really don't know how I will do as I have never been away from them for this amount of time, but they will be in good hands and I can imagine will be kept very occupied. I do plan on having a little something special for them to open or look forward to everyday from us, and we will have sk*ype which should help a bit with the distance and time apart. Well, that's it. The decision is made, and I need to move forward.

And...just for fun....


Time for a hair cut:-)??

As always, God is good!

**update as of 4:00pm EST...My agency confirms that the CCAA is issuing a travel alert, but WILL CONTINUE TO ISSUE TAs, and if the family wishes to postpone travel they will extend their TA.

So, as for now, it looks like we're on schedule.

I sure hope this swine flu burns itself out soon!!!!

18 comments:

Andrea said...

I am sorry, sweet girl.
We got that call this morning.
Just pretend like you don't know about it and keep clicking along.
You never know what will happen.
I am glad the two of you are going alone.
You will enjoy that time alone with your little girl soooo much.
I just can't explain it...you will have to see for yourself.;)

xoxo,
A

babystepstoChina said...

I will keep you in my prayers as I could only imagine how you ache to have Sophie in your arms. I know the Lord has led you to the right decision concerning travel and that he will bless that time alone with Sophie. While we have every intention of bringing our children, I can't say for sure it will really happen due to financial costs and keeping up with this rambunctious boy! My oldest would be fine, it's the younger two I am concerned about. So I need to commit that to prayer more.
You never know how quickly things will change so continue to keep your spirits high and know that the Lord is in control!
Much love,
Robyn

Kim said...

Oh my goodness, how frustrating! I'll keep you in prayer as well as everyone else who's waiting to travel. Keep holding on knowing that God's timing will be perfect.

I know the decision to travel with/without your boys must of been hard to make. However, it will be a good bonding time for you both with Sophie. It is an emotional and stressful time and being able to keep your focus on Sophie and her needs will be much easier.

TanyaLea said...

Oh Tam~
We are certainly lifting this matter up in prayer...for everyone's sake. We pray that the scare of this global epidemic will soon be over and put to rest, so that you can bring your Sophie home. NONE of us want to see any delays in the journeys to our children. These are such crazy times in our world! The more of us that join our faith together in prayer, the better off all of us will be and the Lord will be able to work His divine favor behind the scenes. To Him be the Glory!

Blessings and Hugs,
~Tanya

p.s.>> Love the photo...reminds me of the 80's!! :)

Mamma to 5 said...

Just continue to pray. I have a feeling you will be there before her 4th bday!! When we traveled solo the first time I wrote the kids a note and had a planner letting them know what we were doing that day. (pre-skype era) The second time we used skype, it was amazing!!
BTW, I finished Sophie's dress and added a very cute purse and button hair band out of the same fabric. I will send you a picture then drop it in the mail.

Love,
D~

Mamma to 5 said...

Forgot to add...we have that same wig in blonde, must be the age but jake loves it!!

WilxFamily said...

I'm bummed for ya! And possibly for us too. Our likely time to travel was Oct/Nov. Yes, a bump in the road, but we already know the end! I too will be praying Sophie is home for her b-day.

I'm sure it was a hard decision to take the boys or not! If ours were older like yours, it would be tough too. Sophie will probably LOVE and relish all the time she gets alone with Mom & Dad. I'm so, so excited for her!

Mandi said...

Tami,

As soon as I heard of the delay from CCAA, I immediately thought of you and sweet Sophie.

As hard as it is, just remember this is all in His hands. I will be praying that you hear something soon.

At least you know she is in good hands.

Hugs,
Mandi

Mike and Barb said...

I'm sorry, Tami!
I think everyone is very cautious and proactive right now, but I believe it will not be as bad as people expect right now.
I just received an email from an agency that stated that TA's will still be given. I'll forward that email to you!
Love, Barb

dan and rachel said...

whew!!! i am so glad you are still on sched!!! i will be praying that swine flu doesn't become pandemic as well. scary stuff!

Nicole said...

Fabulous update! So happy things are moving along! Praying for you!!! Now where is our darn USCIS approval???!!!

:-)
-Nicole
www.bakerssweets.blogspot.com

DiJo said...

Hi!
Praying that this passes quickly for ALL! I know if it was me, I would travel in a heart beat to pick up my child regardless of the warnings... I just wanted to chime in on your note about the boys & your trip. We left Ainsley home when we picked up Ruby. She was 6 at the time. To this day, I feel it was the absolute best decision for our family. Ruby blossomed with the one on one attention she received. It was am amazing time for the three of us. And, I loved the time I got with Jeff prior to meeting her too. You will never regret it. I promise! There is a comfort in knowing that your children are being loved back home! I never worried about Ainsley. We talked to her everyday, and she did great!!!! If we were to go again, we would do the exact same thing!!!!!
Blessings and prayers for a very quick TA!
~Diana

Jenna said...

I have been thinking about you since the whole swine flu thing broke! I'm glad to hear the update, but I will be praying with you that it all ends up being much ado about nothing and things will simply proceed normally! I cannot imagine having to deal with a delay of that kind- it would make a mama's heart break for sure!

I have my quilt square- just have to send it! Getting to the post office is no small feat!

sara said...

Oh, Tam - I know it was a tough decision about whether or not to take the boys. It was for us too. Sophie will love the one on one time and she will steal all your hearts and you guys will be so busy falling in love that time will fly!!

Happy to hear that travel is ON!!!!! God is so good!

Tish said...

whew! glad i came by when you had the good update! HOORAY!

swine flue, swine flu go away
little tami wants TA!

you weren't kidding when you said the boys' hair is getting long!

i LOVE your wordless wed photo!!!!

Vicki said...

Lots of pulling on your heart strings!! Glad to hear it looks as though things will continue to move along. We'll be hoping Sophie is home by her birthday!

Heather said...

Tami,

I just about fell out of my chair (well actaully my bed, ha) as I read your story to your daughter. I found your site by "accident" and am smiling at God's timing. I have talked to Karen as well last year about a child in their care who we are so very drawn to. I would so appreciate talking with you about your agency and the amazing circumstances that brought you to your daughter.

You can email me at 7selingers@cox.net.

God Bless,
Heather

Pickel said...

Wishing you luck. Letting you know that your sweet Sophie's picture is now on our site. :)
http://www.growninmyheart.com/about